Monday, March 29, 2010
I've come to a realization that the best way for me to deal with this...him! is by giving him a taste of his own medicine. How? The "I'm Busy" technique... which I basically am as of recent -__-
I haven't appeared online to him since Friday, and I plan to seize fire till later this week.
This might not be the best approach, but I figured that I got nothing to lose in the end. I am my own self once again and I'm thankfull. Nothing would take that away from me again, at least not with my trying hard.
Will keep you tuned in if you do :)
Till next time
Saturday, March 27, 2010
...and I'm truly positive of what I want in life.... something which I've been aqcuainted with pretty recently in my life, nothing can cast my sails in a different direction. It's just the path that I've chosen. The decided one. And the one that's final.
I'm talking about love.
When I was a teenager I had a crush on this guy at school. I think I liked him cos he was the only good looking one... in comparison with the others, per se.
It was a small school and I guess that says it all.
And that was my first love... or perhaps that's what I believed.
When you grow older and see things in life, you start looking at it from a different perspective... and I'm here to... to just spill things out rather than just bottle them up. To the new comers who've tuned into my channel, I ain't a vocal type of person, and writing is my biggest relief in the world...so, Thank God for that.
I came across a guy online... and I thought I was ready for it. No, I knew I was ready for it! And I got myself head over heels in a distance relationship.
It was perfect.
And that's what I dearly didn't know for sure about... back then.
Long story short, it had a tragic ending and I had to pull the plug to save myself some respect and dignity.
The gap that followed was almost a year and a half and neither of us knew anything about the other. I had deleted him from my life, and my messenger contact list.
Apparently, he didn't.
It was only a few days ago that he popped out in front of me -not physically- and started asking whether I had a place in me for him.
My answer was strictly no.
I had done my thinking... I had found closure... I have found peace with myself and the life that I'm leading so far... therefore, I said no.
You know, when a guy is simply clueless in life, or in dealing with other people, then he's a straight A loser.
Yes, there are people who find it hard socializing with others and I'm fully aware of that case... but the case in hand here, is that he just never worked on it.
I had given him a second chance before, but another one would be utterly ridiculous!
To be cont...
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Wouldn't it be nice if all you got your friends to read your blog... for the sake of getting feedback... a reflection.... an echo... a reaction... so that you know you're not talking to the wall...
Okay...what was that?!
Like, if my friends read mine, I'd be burying my face like an ostrich >///< lol
Anyway - -"
So, I'm proud to say that I've passed my first semester modules..yeehhaaaa! Go Sparkle get busy!! get busy! :D
There's still loads to work on this semester and it sure ain't over yet. o_O
I'm glad that my individual project is going well... Can you believe it? I'm working with Adam as my supervisor!! @_@ what are the odds? and what's more... my working title is "Adam's Apple"
But to be honest, he's been great so far... which made me conclude that he's great as a personal tutor, not as a lecturer *yak yak*
It's a 4000 words' short story. A romance comedy based in present day Libya. Isn't that exciting? ^_^
The weather these days is not bad... sure it's raining, but that fine with me :) and it's the easter holidays... so yaay!!
Excuse me if I'm making no sense... I guess it's just a simple warm up to get me blabbering once again.
I know... I haven't said anything about Comedislam. It was a blast! I loved it big time :) I think the hall was full booked and there were people standing! It was good for a change, really, and I made some new friends ^_^
Last week I had two presentations, the first was in small groups to discuss my research project plan... (like that makes sense 9_9) the other was a poster presentation... yeah, I know... one of my colleagues was like: "How the Hell am I gonna get that done?"
And I was like: "James, think 6th grade!"
And that's how it was. We all got ridiculously creative with our lousy posters... good thing we weren't assessed for that -__-" *phew*
What else?? what else??
Ooooooh! My friend Julia gave birth to a baby girl!! woohoo!! she over a month old now... and she ain't got no name yet !! lol
My sister in Libya called her "Button" when she saw her pics... and that's what we're calling her temporarily hhhhhhhh :P
What else?? what else??
Yes! My friend in Switzerland is coming to visit woohoo! She's coming via train B-D lucky her... but lucky me too ^_^ I get to see her! heehee sadly she'll only be staying for 3 days....3 DAYS!!
And I haven't seen her for like 10 YEARS!! *sniff sniff*
Ok, I cheated and saw her on webcam >////<
This is it... sorry for being silly today... I don't know what got into me... I'm hyper and typing like a maniac!! * GRRR*
So, this is from me...
Till next time!