I've come to a realization that the best way for me to deal with this...him! is by giving him a taste of his own medicine. How? The "I'm Busy" technique... which I basically am as of recent -__-
I haven't appeared online to him since Friday, and I plan to seize fire till later this week.
This might not be the best approach, but I figured that I got nothing to lose in the end. I am my own self once again and I'm thankfull. Nothing would take that away from me again, at least not with my trying hard.
Will keep you tuned in if you do :)
Till next time
Sparkle xxx
4 comments:
Ye, he probably realises he may need you. Or he might feel like that. I think guys are more eager when they don't have the control over the situation. When they have the last words they feel at ease so its like the girl is kinda running after him. I may be wrong. But from my experience it is best to have the level of control that you have, by not appearing online. I do that somtimes, other times I just dont sign on in the first place just incase shaytaan whispers and tells me 'dont worry just see how hes doing' and then it turns into an hour or 2 of idle convo. :|
Just keep doing what your doing and getting on with your life and dont let little distractions play on your mind :) x
salaams spirkle,
I agree with effervescent. I think, a good reminder would be to 'RESIST, REPEL the REBEL' lol
I find that, controlling one's nafs is one of the hardest thing to do, yet we tend to forget the reward is so much greater!
:)
Thanks girls, I'm glad to get such constructive responses.
I'm standing my ground.. so far so good...
Inshallah, I'll do my best from now on :)
All the best. Stay strong. Let us know how it works out. I hope he doesnt read this blog lol
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